The decision to schedule a beloved pet’s peaceful transition involves a myriad of considerations, primarily centered around their quality of life. While evaluating quality of life warrants its own discussion, this article aims to explore additional factors pivotal in determining the timing for euthanasia.
This topic holds a deeply personal resonance for me and my husband, Jeff. Recently, we bid farewell to our cherished 22-year-old kitty, Bobby. Deciding on the timing of euthanasia was emotionally challenging, given Bobby’s ongoing medical conditions—arthritis, kidney disease, and possible liver disease/cancer. In the last month, we sensed Bobby’s time drawing near. However, like many families, we grappled with the balance between not prolonging suffering and not letting go prematurely. Despite aiming for a timeframe, Bobby continued engaging in his usual activities, complicating our decision.
During a weekend when Jeff was away in early November, Bobby’s health suddenly deteriorated—he stopped eating, experienced bloody diarrhea, and vomiting. Hoping it might pass and wanting Jeff to be present, I hesitated. Yet, Bobby grew weaker. It became evident that this decline was the sign we had been waiting for. Despite our desire to bid farewell together, we chose not to prolong Bobby’s discomfort. Jeff joined via video chat as we said our goodbyes to Bobby basking in the morning sunbeams, his favorite spot.
Rest in Peace, sweet Bobby
